Respectful Separation Support

For most people, it can take up to seven attempts to leave an unhealthy relationship. By the time we have made that final decision to separate, we are usually so psychologically and emotionally exhausted and disconnected that we may no longer be wanting to hurt ourselves or our partner whilst navigating the difficult process of separation and dividing belongings.

Ending a relationship, partnership or marriage with grace, dignity and respect is an important process to consider. After a separation things need to be finalised, decisions need to be made to move forward and we offer a solution where we act as an independent supporter to both parties who would both like to engage in a respectful separation outcome.

Our role is not as a legal representative, child protection or rearing matter, to give advice or favour one individual over another. We are there to encourage and support healthy ways at looking at the situation and suggesting collaborative ways and strategies that may lead to an amicable and speedy outcome.

Where a relationship has disintegrated beyond communication, we may also work between the two parties at their mutual request, to mediate a respectful separation.

Aims of respectful separation 

• To prevent further harm

• To create solution focused, workable solutions to respectfully separate

• To remain neutral, independent and to maintain high integrity

• To encourage an outcome in a timely and effective manner

• To create closure where a stalemate has halted separation

• To act as a go between

We are not for

• Causing further harm

•  Ongoing therapy and support

• Legal or court advice or child protection or rearing matters

• Situations of stonewalling and inflexibility by either party

• Power imbalance

• Telling people what they should or should not do

Please note - This is a fee based, highly ethical, confidential service, where fees are negotiated and can be negated at my discretion. In the sole interest of not causing harm or if I feel I am unable to influence a respectful separation between both parties, I reserve the right to step back and end this service at any time without notice or explanation.

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