Our (Embodied) Connect and Care mode - A Phenomenon

Our (Embodied) Connect and Care mode is a phenomenon that cannot be readily explained or accessed in rational (Thinking)  or emotional (Feeling) terms. It might be best described as early adaptive and reciprocal actions and behaviours of synchronicity within ourselves and between another and the care provided together contingently, the reciprocity of the mutual beneficial exchanges of support, joy, care and concern, the vibrational resonance of being securely attached and attuned to each other's emotional and psychological needs, the co-regulation required for homeostasis harmony and the comfort of both being seen, soothed, safe and secure in the unconditional shared experiences and non-judgemental minds and memories of each other, to last us a lifetime. 

We were meant to bond, join and share our experiences with at least one important other, who makes us important to them, in an equal to or greater, connected and caring experience of subjective meaning. Anything lesser creates enduring consequences across the whole lifespan.